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[1] Mather,Mark and Diana Lavery,“In U.S.Proportion Married at Lowest Recorded Levels,”Population Reference Bureau,2010 https://www.prb.org/Publications/Articles/2010/usmarriagedecline.aspx.

[2] According to Robert B.Bernstein at the Census Bureau,in 1979,the median age rose to 22.1.

东方财富配资[3] Mather and Lavery,“In U.S.,Proportion Married at Lowest Recorded Levels,”2010.

[4] Cohn,D’vera,Jeffery S.Passel,Wendy Wang and Gretchen Livingston,“Barely Half of U.S.Adults Are Married——A Record Low,”Pew Research Center,December 14,2011,https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2011/12/14/barely-half-of-u-s-adults-are-married-a-record-low/.

[5] Mather and Lavery,“In U.S.,Proportion Married at Lowest Recorded Levels,”2010.

[6] Betts,Hannah,“Being Single by Choice Is Liberating,”The Telegraph,March 21,2013.

[7] Roiphe,Katie,Last Night in Paradise,via New York Times excerpt,1997,https://www.nytimes.com/books/first/r/roiphe-paradise.html.

[8] Gardner,Page,“Equal Pay Day:Unmarried Women Bear the Brunt of the Pay Gap,”The Voter Participation Center,August 13,2015,https://www.voterpartici pation.org/equal-pay-day-2015/.

[9] Mather,Mark and Beth Jarosz,“Women Making Progress in U.S.But Gaps Remain,”Population Reference Bureau,2014,https://www.prb.org/Publications/Reports/2014/us-inequality-women-progress.aspx.

东方财富配资[10] “America’s Families and Living Arrangements:2014:Adults”(Table 1A),United States Census Bureau https://www.census.gov/hhes/families/data/cps2014A.html via Lake Research Partners,“The Power of Unmarried Women,”The Voter Participation Center,March 2012.

东方财富配资[11] Fry,Richard,“No Reversal in the Decline of Marriage,”Pew Research Center,November 20,2012,https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2012/11/20/no-reversal-in-decline-of-marriage/#src=prc-newsletter.

[12] Anthony,Susan B.,“The Homes of Single Women,”October,1877.Anthony’s essay is cited in many texts,including Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B.Anthony:Correspondence,Writings,Speeches,with critical commentary by Ellen Carol DuBois and a foreward by Gerda Lerner(New York:Schocken Books,1981),148–149.

第一章:小心那个中国股市

东方财富配资[1] See also,“drapetpomania”a purported mental illness reported by physician Samuel Cartwight to be suffered by slaves fleeing captivity.Here is the imagination of disease when someone who has been disempowered becomes empowered.Cited by Melissa Harris-Perry on“Melissa Harris-Perry,”MSNBC,April 7,2014.

[2] Safire,William,“The Plot to Savage Thomas,”New York Times,October 14,1991 https://www.nytimes.com/1991/10/14/opinion/essay-the-plot-to-savage-thomas.html.

[3] Hill,Anita Faye,“Marriage and Patronage in the Empowerment and Disempowerment of African American Women,”in Race,Gender and Power in America,283.

东方财富配资[4] Patty Murray in conversation with Karen Finney at The Atlantic’s“Women in Washington”event,September 25,2013.https://www.murray.senate.gov/public/index.cfm/newsreleases?ContentRecord_id=bc16d80a-aca9-43cc-864a-c645ab 30c2cd.

[5] “Social Indicators of Marital Health and Well-Being,”State of Our Unions Report,2011,https://www.stateofourunions.org/2011/.social_indicators.php.

[6] Anita:Speaking Truth to Power,directed by Frieda Mock,Goldwyn Films,2013.

[7] Quayle,Dan,“The Murphy Brown Speech,”May 19,1992 via Michael A.Cohen’s Live From the Campaign Trail,2008,https://livefromthetrail.com/about-the-book/speeches/chapter-18/vice-president-dan-quayle.

[8] Hymowitz,Kay,Jason S.Carroll,W.Bradford Wilcox,Kelleen Kaye,“Knot Yet:The Benefits and Costs of Delaying Marriage in America,”The National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia,The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy,and the Relate Institute,2013,https://twenty somethingmarriage.org/summary/.

[9] Friedan,Betty,The Feminine Mystique,1963/1983,1.

[10] “1.4 million copies…”Menand,Louis,“Books as Bombs:Why the Women’s Movement Needed The Feminine Mystique,”The New Yorker,January 242011.“Credited with having kicked off…”attributed to,among other places,Nora Ephron’s“Miami,”published in Crazy Salad,37–46.

[11] Henry,Astrid,Not My Mother’s Sister,64.

东方财富配资[12] Episode One,Makers:Women Who Make America,PBS,February 26,2013.

[13] Friedan,Betty,“The National Organization for Women’s 1966 Statement of Purpose,”October 29,1966.

东方财富配资[14] Guy-Sheftall,Beverly,Words of Fire,97.Via Coontz,A Strange Stirring.

东方财富配资[15] “In 1970…”from“Median Age at First Marriage:1890 to the Present,”U.S.Census Bureau,Decennial Censuses,1890 to 1940,and Current Population Survey,Annual Social and Economic Supplements,1947 to 2014 and via The U.S.Census Bureau.

东方财富配资[16] Friedan,Betty,“Up From the Kitchen Floor,”The New York Times Magazine,March 4,1973.

[17] Friedan,Betty,The Feminine Mystique,18–19.

东方财富配资[18] a Few Things with Moses Znaimer,CBC,November 4,1968,https://www.cbc.ca/player/Digital+Archives/CBC+Programs/Television/The+Way+It+Is/ID/2575079962/.

[19] Steinem,Gloria,letter to Time,September 16,2000.

东方财富配资[20] Moran,Rachel F.,“How Second Wave Feminism Forgot the Single Woman,”Hofstra Law Review,vol.33,issue 1,article 5,2004.

东方财富配资[21] Cott,Public Vows,199.

[22] Faludi,Backlash,108.

东方财富配资[23] Moran,Rachel F.,“How Second Wave Feminism Forgot the Single Woman,”Hofstra Law Review,vol.33,issue 1,article 5,2004.

东方财富配资[24] “Percent Never Married Among Those Aged 35 and older by Sex:1890–2010”from Elliott,Diana B,Kristy Krivickas,Matthew W.Brault,and Rose M.Kreider,“Historical Marriage Trends from 1890–2010:A Focus on Race,”2012.U.S.Decennial Census(1890–2000)American Community Survey(2010),https://www.census.gov/hhes/socdemo/marriage/data/acs/Elliottetal PAA2012figs.pdf.

[25] Rivers,Caryl,“Newsweek’s Apology Comes 20 Years Too Late,”Women’s eNews,June 14,2006,https://womensenews.org/story/uncovering-gender/060614/news weeks-apology-comes-20-years-too-late.

[26] This exact figure is 57.5 percent,according to the Centers for Disease Control.

[27] “Marriage,More than a Century of Change,”National Center for Family and Marriage Research at Bowling Green State University,July 18,2013.

东方财富配资[28] Martin,Jonathan,“A New Firm Sets Out to Secure Women’s Votes for a Vulnerable G.O.P.,”New York Times,November 11,2013.

[29] Lake Research Partners Election Eve Omnibus,November 4–6,2012.

[30] Last,Jonathan V.,“Start a Family…And Before You Know It,You’ll be Voting for the GOP,”Weekly Standard,April 22,2013.

东方财富配资[31] Stan,Adele M.,“After a Generation of Extremism,Phyllis Schlafly Still a Leading General in the War on Women,”Alternet,April 22,2012.

[32] Kotkin,Joel,““Demographic Dead End?”Barack Obama’s Single Nation,”The Daily Beast,October 18,2012,https://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/10/18/demographic-dead-end-barack-obama-s-single-nation.html.

东方财富配资[33] Gardner,Page,“How Unmarried Women Can Change the World,”Role Reboot,August 18,2015,https://www.rolereboot.org/culture-and-politics/details/2015-08-how-unmarried-american-women-can-change-the-world/.

东方财富配资[34] Babbin,Jed,“Fluke the Welfare Queen,”The American Spectator,March 12,2012,https://spectator.org/blog/29164/fluke-welfare-queen.Via Joan Walsh,What’s the Matter With White People.

[35] Sawhill,Isabel V.,“Beyond Marriage,”New York Times,September 13,2014.https://www.nytimes.com/2014/09/14/opinion/sunday/beyond-marriage.html.

[36] Wakeman,Jessica,“Bad Advice?Or Worst Advice?Mitt Romney Urges 3012 College Grads to Get Married,Have Kids,”The Frisky,May 1,2013,https://www.thefrisky.com/2013-05-01/bad-advice-or-worst-advice-mitt-romney-urges-2013-college-grads-to-get-married-have-kids/.

东方财富配资[37] Last,Jonathan V.,“America’s Baby Bust,”The Wall Street Journal,February 12,2013.

东方财富配资[38] Carmon,Irin,“Pregnancy is Patriotic!”Salon.com,February 21,2013,https://www.salon.com/2013/02/21/decoding_the_fertility_panic/?source=newsletter.

第二章:创造历史的单身女性

[1] “That it please your Majesty…”Hadfield,Andrew,The Cambridge Companion to Spenser,191;“I have long since…”Glenn,Cheryl,Rhetoric Retold,162;“one mistress and no master…”Oxford Dictionary of Political Quotations,2012;“If I am to disclose to you…”Traub,Valerie,The Renaissance of Lesbianism in Early Modern England,128.

[2] Bennett and Froide,Singlewomen in the European Past,6–7.

[3] Nellie Bly interview with Susan B.Anthony,The World,February 2,1896,https://www.rarenewspapers.com/view/621269?acl=851761768&imagelist=1#full-im ages&rc=blog.

[4] Gordon,Ann D.,The Selected Papers of Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B.Anthony,316.

[5] Norton,Mary Beth,Founding Mothers and Fathers,39–40;41.

[6] Baxandall,Rosalyn and Linda Gordon,America’s Working Women,17.

东方财富配资[7] Kessler-Harris,Alice,Out to Work,11.

东方财富配资[8] Cott,Nancy,Bonds of Womanhood,27.

[9] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty:A Better Husband,11.

[10] Dubler,Ariela,“In the Shadow of Marriage:Single Women and the Legal Construction of the Family and the State,”The Yale Law Journal,May 1,2003,https://www.highbeam.com/doc/1G1-102910521.html.

[11] Cott,Bonds of Womanhood,22.

东方财富配资[12] Moran,Rachel F.,“How Second Wave Feminism Forgot the Single Woman,”Hofstra Law Review,vol.33,issue 1,article 5,2004.

东方财富配资[13] Norton,Liberty’s Daughters,299.

东方财富配资[14] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,A Better Husband,1.

[15] Goodbeer,Richard,Sexual Revolution in Early America,200.

[16] Foster,Till Death or Distance Do Us Part,37.Foster’s book also included the reference to Harriet Ann Jacobs’Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl,1861.

[17] Hanger,Kimberly S.,“The Fortunes of Women in America:Spanish New Orleans’s Free Women of African Descent and Their Relations With Slave Women,”in Discovering the Women in Slavery,153–178.

东方财富配资[18] Hanger,Kimberly S.,“Free Black Women in Colonial New Orleans,”in The Devil’s Lane,226.

东方财富配资[19] The Young Lady’s Book:A Manual of Elegant Recreations,Exercises and Pursuits.London:Vizetelly,Branston and Co,1829,28.

东方财富配资[20] Welter,Barbara,“The Cult of True Womanhood:1820–1860,”American Quarterly,Volume 18,Issue 2,Part 1,Summer 1966.

[21] Collins,America’s Women,92.

东方财富配资[22] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,A Better Husband,41.

东方财富配资[23] Burnap,George Washington,The Sphere And Duties of Woman:A Course of Lectures,Baltimore:John Murphy,1848,121–122.Via Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,a Better Husband.

东方财富配资[24] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,A Better Husband,54.

东方财富配资[25] Ibid.,10.

[26] Goldstein,Dana,“The Chicago Strike and the History of American Teachers,”Dana Goldstein,September 12,2012,https://www.danagoldstein.net/dana_gold stein/2012/09/the-chicago-strike-and-the-history-of-american-teachers-unions.html.

[27] Goldstein,“The Woman Upstairs and the Pedagogy of Love,”https://www.dana goldstein.net/dana_goldstein/2013/06/the-woman-upstairs-and-the-pedagogy-of-love.html.

东方财富配资[28] Betsey“A Letter About Old Maids,”The Lowell Offering,October 1840,4–5.

东方财富配资[29] Olson,Lynne,Freedom’s Daughters:The Unsung Heroines of the Civil Rights Movement 1830–1970,New York:Scribner,2001.Via excerpt,The New York Times,https://www.nytimes.com/books/first/o/olson-daughters.html.

[30] Israel,Bachelor Girl,33;Encyclopedia of African American History,1619–1895,Paul Finkelman,ed.332.

东方财富配资[31] Governor’s Address on“the emigration of young women to the West,”March 29,1865,https://archive.org/stream/reportma00mass/reportma00mass_djvu.txt.Via Collins,America’s Women.

[32] Vapnek,Lara,Breadwinners,19–20.

[33] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty.A Better History,7–8.

东方财富配资[34] “The Stakeholder:A quarterly publication of the Cherokee Strip Regional Heritage Center,”Winter,2008.

东方财富配资[35] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,A Better Husband,2–3.

[36] “Transcript of the Morrill Act,”1862,https://www.ourdocuments.gov/doc.php?flash=true&doc=33&page=transcript;Linda Eisenmann,Historical Dictionary of Women’s Education in the United States,275.Via Chambers-Schiller,191.

东方财富配资[37] Peischl,Bridget Smith,“The History of Mississippi University for Women,”Mississippi History Now,March,2012,https://mshistorynow.mdah.state.ms.us/arti cles/379/the-history-of-mississippi-university-for-women.

东方财富配资[38] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,A Better Husband,176.

[39] Ibid.

[40] “Myra Bradwell v.State of Illinois,”1873.

[41] Gould,Stephen Jay,Mismeasure of Man,135–137.Also via Chambers-Schiller.

[42] Gould,Stephen Jay,Mismeasure of Man,135–137.

东方财富配资[43] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty a Better Husband,192.

[44] Ibid.

[45] Ibid.,196.

[46] Cott,Bonds of Womanhood,7.

东方财富配资[47] Peiss,Kathy,Cheap Amusements,34.

[48] Goldstein,Dana,“The Chicago Strike and the History of American Teachers’Unions,”Dana Goldstein,September,12,2012,https://www.danagoldstein.net/dana_goldstein/2012/09/the-chicago-strike-and-the-history-of-american-teach ers-unions.html.

东方财富配资[49] Giddings,Paula,When and Where I Enter.

东方财富配资[50] Peiss,Cheap Amusements,57–58.

东方财富配资[51] Ibid.

[52] Coontz,A Strange Stirring,41.

[53] Coontz,Marriage:A History,200.

[54] “Before the Mother’s Conference,”A Compilation of the Messages and Speeches of Theodore Roosevelt,576.

东方财富配资[55] Lovett,Laura,Conceiving the Future,91–92.

[56] I first found reference to this in Coontz,Marriage a History,201,though some discrepancy about Sumner’s date of death led me to Bruce Curtis,“Wlliam Graham Sumner on the Family,Women and Sex”in Victorians Abed,101.

东方财富配资[57] Hamlin,Kimberly A.,“Bathing Suits and Backlash:The First Miss America Pageants,1921–1927,”in There She is,Miss America,28.

[58] Coontz,A Strange Stirring,45.

东方财富配资[59] May,Elaine Tyler,Homeward Bound,95.

[60] Ibid,101.

东方财富配资[61] Heidel,Don,“Coeds:Is It Too Late?Manless Juniors Said Old Maids,”The Florida Flambeau,February 22,1957.Via Gail Collins,When Everything Changed.https://news.google.com/newspapers?id=4vsyAAAAIBAJ&sjid=4hAGAAAAI BAJ&pg=2112%2C606968

东方财富配资[62] Collins,When Everything Changed,38.

[63] Coontz,Stephanie,“Marriage:Saying I Don’t,”Los Angeles Times,January 19,2012.https://articles.latimes.com/2012/jan/19/opinion/la-oe-coontz-marriage-20120119.

[64] Friedan,Betty,The Feminine Mystique.

[65] Episode One,Makers:Women Who Make America,PBS,February 26,2013.

[66] Davis,Kingsley,Contemporary Marriage,The Russell Sage Foundation,1985.

东方财富配资[67] Elliott,Diana B.,Kristy Krivickas,Matthew W.Brault,Rose M.Kreider,“Historical MArriage Trends from 1890–2010:A Focus on Race Difference,”SEHD Working Paper Number 2012-12,12–13.https://www.census.gov/hhes/socdemo/marriage/data/acs/ElliottetalPAA2012paper.pdf.

[68] Margo,Robert A.“Explaining Black-White Wage Convergence,1940–1950,”Industrial and Labor Relations Review,Vol.48,No.3,April 1995,470–481,https://www.jstor.org/stable/2524775?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents.

东方财富配资[69] Katznelson,Ira,When Affirmative Action Was White:An Untold History of Racial Inequality in Twentieth Century America,New York:W.W.Norton and Company,2005.Via Ta-Nehesi Coates,“A Religion of Colorblind Policy,”TheAtlantic.com,May 30,2013.https://m.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2013/05/a-religion-of-colorblind-policy/276379/.

东方财富配资[70] Sugrue,Tom,Sweet Land of Liberty:The Forgotten Struggle for Civil Rights in the North,Via Ta Nehesi here:https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2013/02/the-effects-of-housing-segregation-on-black-wealth/272775/.

[71] Sugrue,Sweet Land of Liberty,200–201.

第三章:都市诱惑

东方财富配资[1] Wile,Rob,“This Southern City has the Most Single Person Households in America,”Business Insider,April 26,2012.

[2] Klinenberg,Eric,Going Solo.

[3] Venugopal,Arun,“New York Leads in Never Married Women,”wnyc.org,September 22,2011,https://www.wnyc.org/story/160010-blog-new-york-never-mar ried-women/.

[4] Nanos,Janelle,“Single By Choice,”Boston Magazine,January 2012.“The median age…”from same story,supported by Population Reference Bureau charts drawing on five-year American Community Survey,2009–2013,https://www.prb.org/DataFinder/Topic/Rankings.aspx?ind=133.

东方财富配资[5] Bennett and Froide,Singlewomen of the European Past,2–3.

[6] Kowaleski,Maryanne,in Bennett and Froide’s Singlewomen of the European Past,53–54.

[7] Stansell,Christine,City of Women,13–14.

东方财富配资[8] Israel,Bachelor Girl,58.

[9] McDougald,Elise Johnson,“The Double Task:The Struggle of Negro Women for Sex and Race Emancipation,”Survey 53,March 1,1925,689–691.Via Giddings,When and Where I Enter.

[10] Peiss,Cheap Amusements,13.

东方财富配资[11] Nellie Bly interview with Susan B.Anthony,The World,February 2,1896,https://www.rarenewspapers.com/view/621269?acl=851761768&imagelist=1#full-im ages&rc=blog.

[12] Peiss,Cheap Amusements,58.

[13] Israel,Bachelor Girl,106.

[14] Kaufman,Gena,“Where the Single Men Are,”Glamour,June 5,2013,https://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2013/06/where-the-single-men-are-um-ev.

[15] “The Woman with the Flying Hair,”Swarthmore College Bulletin,February 1991,https://bulletin.swarthmore.edu/bulletin-issue-archive/index.html%3Fp=1052.html.

[16] Israel,Bachelor Girl,112.

[17] Stansell,City of Women,255.

东方财富配资[18] Stansell,City of Women,84.

[19] Meyerowitz,Joanne,Women Adrift,80.

东方财富配资[20] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,a Better Husband,72.

[21] Ibid.,74.

东方财富配资[22] “between a third and a half…”Moran,“How Second Wave Feminism Forgot Single Women.”“Each member…”from Katherine Snyder,“A Paradise of Bachelors:Remodeling Domesticity and Masculinity in the Turn of the Century New York Bachelor Apartment,”23 Prospects:An Annual of American Cultural Studies,1998,quoted in Moran.

[23] Gray,Christopher,“For Career Women,A Hassle-Free Haven,”New York Times,June 28,2012.

东方财富配资[24] Israel,Bachelor Girl,4.

[25] Dvorak,Petula,“A City Divided and Increasingly Unaffordable,”The Washington Post,April 3,2014.

[26] Wax,Emily,“Home Squeezed Home:Living in a 200 Square Foot Space,”The Washington Post,November 27,2012.

[27] Thompson,Lynn,“Critics of Micro-Apartments Calling for a Moratorium,”Seattle Times,April 23,2013.

东方财富配资[28] North,Anna,“What the Single Ladies Have Wanted for More Than A Century,”The New York Times,April 24,2015,https://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/24/opin ion/what-the-single-ladies-have-wanted-for-more-than-a-century.html.

东方财富配资[29] Stansell,City of Women,72.

东方财富配资[30] Meyerowitz,Women Adrift,115.

东方财富配资[31] Stansell,City of Women,221.

[32] Lovett,Laura,Conceiving the Future,88.

东方财富配资[33] “A Deadly Encounter”Dateline,NBC,January 20,2007,https://www.nbcnews.com/id/16713078/ns/dateline_nbc/t/deadly-encounter/#.UbtL8yMkchw.

[34] Nussbaum,Emily,“Difficult Women,”The New Yorker,July 29,2013.

第四章:危险关系

东方财富配资[1] Angier,Natalie,“The Changing American Family,”New York Times,November 26,2013,https://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/26/health/families.html.

[2] Smith-Rosenberg,Carroll,Disorderly Conduct.61–62.

东方财富配资[3] Bennett and Froide,Singlewomen in the European Past,85.

[4] Smith-Rosenberg,Disorderly Conduct,60.

[5] Ibid.,71–75.

[6] Norton,Mary Beth,Founding Mothers and Fathers,354.

[7] Lincoln,Abraham,“Dear Speed,Springfield,Ills.,Feby 13.1842,”Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln,https://quod.lib.umich.edu/l/lincoln/lincoln1/1:292?rgn=p1;view=fulltext,via Jennie Rothenberg Gritz,“But Were they Gay?The Mystery of Same-Sex Love in the 19th Century,”The Atlantic.com,September 7,2012.

东方财富配资[8] Gritz,“But Were They Gay?”The Atlantic.com.

[9] Willard,Frances,The Autobiography of an American Woman,642.

[10] Chevigny,Bell Gale,Margaret Fuller the Woman and the Myth,113.

东方财富配资[11] Coontz,Marriage,A History,205–206.

东方财富配资[12] All letters cited were written between August and October 1854,from Margaret Smith,ed.,The Letters of Charlotte Brontë:Volume Three 1852–1855.

[13] Mailer,Norman,“The Mary McCarthy Case,”The New York Review of Books,October 17,1963,in Nussbaum,Emily,“Hannah Barbaric,”The New Yorker,February 11,2013.

东方财富配资[14] Episode One,Makers:Women Who Make America,PBS,February 26,2013.

[15] Syme,Rachel,“The Broad Strokes,”Grantland.com,January 14,2015,https://grantland.com/features/broad-city-season-2-comedy-central-abbi-jacobson-ilana-glazer/.

东方财富配资第五章:我的孤单,我的自我

[1] Ortberg,Mallory,“What the Happiest Woman in the World Looks Like,”The Toast.com,February 11,2015,https://the-toast.net/2015/02/11/happiest-woman-world-looks-like/#GjSEZ1Sf1HaxYbj6.99.

[2] Kurutz,Steven,“One if the Quirkiest Number,”The New York Times,February 22,2012.

[3] Schwartz,Benjamin E.,“Selfishness as Virtue,”The American Interest,June 10,2012,https://www.the-american-interest.com/article-bd.cfm?piece=1272#sthash.RdgQ6T9c.dpuf.

[4] Parker-Pope,Tara,“In a Married World,Singles Struggle for Attention,”The New York Times,September 19,2011,https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/09/19/the-plight-of-american-singles/?_php=true&_type=blogs&_r=0.

[5] Bennett and Froide,Singlewomen in the European Past,60–63.

东方财富配资[6] Farmer,Sharon,in Bennett and Froide,Singlewomen in the European Past,87.7.Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,A Better Husband,159.

[8] Goldstein,Dana,The Teacher Wars,33.

[9] Walker,Ruth,“Why Wait?Single Women Want to Live in Style,”Christian Science Monitor,February 4,1979.Via Israel,Bachelor Girl.

[10] Faludi,Susan,Backlash,108.

[11] Gross,Jane,“Single Women:Coping With a Void,”The New York Times,April 28,1987,https://www.nytimes.com/1987/04/28/nyregion/single-women-coping-with-a-void.html?pagewanted=all&src=pm.

[12] Klinenberg,Eric,Going Solo,5.

东方财富配资[13] Williamson,Kevin,“Five Reasons Why You’re Too Dumb to Vote,”National Review.com,September 28,2014,https://www.nationalreview.com/article/388945/five-reasons-why-youre-too-dumb-vote-kevin-d-williamson.

东方财富配资[14] DePaulo,Bella,“That Spinster Stigma Study:Others are Intrusive or they Ignore You,”Psychology Today,June 10,2010,https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/201006/spinster-stigma-study-others-are-intrusive-or-they-ignore-you.

[15] Maria Mitchell Papers Diary 1854–1857;Box One,Folder One.Courtesy of the Nantucket Maria Mitchell Association.

[16] Gallagher,Maggie and Linda Waite,The Case for Marriage,New York:Crown,2002,52.

[17] Parker-Pope,Tara,“Married Cancer Patients Live Longer,”New York Times,September 24,2013.https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/09/24/married-cancer-pa tients-live-longer/?hpw&_r=1.

[18] Gottlieb,Lori,“Marry Him!The Case for Settling for Mr.Good Enough,”The Atlantic,March 2008.

东方财富配资[19] Kreider,Rose M.and Renee Ellis,“Number,Timing,and Duration of Marriages and Divorces,2009,”U.S.Census Bureay,May 2011,https://www.census.gov/prod/2011pubs/p70-125.pdf.

[20] Israel,Bachelor Girl,42.

东方财富配资[21] Goldstein,The Teacher Wars,31.

[22] Burnap,George Washington,The Sphere And Duties of Woman:A Course of Lectures,Baltimore:John Murphy,1848,64.Via Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,a Better Husband.

东方财富配资[23] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,a Better Husband,50.

东方财富配资[24] Ibid,55.

[25] Collins,America’s Women,138.

[26] Rogers,Anna A.,“Why American Marriages Fail,”The Atlantic Monthly,Cambridge:The Riverside Press,1907,via Coontz,Marriage:A History.

东方财富配资[27] Esfahani Smith,Emily,“Science Says Lasting Relationships Come Down to Two Basic Traits,”The Atlantic.com,November 9,2014.

东方财富配资[28] Barker,Eric,“These Four Things Kill Relationships,”Time.com,August 26,2014,https://time.com/3174575/these-4-things-kill-relationships/.

[29] Klinenberg,Going Solo,157.

东方财富配资[30] Cobbe,Frances Power,“Celibacy vs.Marriage,”in Criminals,Idiots,Women&Minors,Susan Hamilton,ed,57,via Israel,Bachelor Girl.

第六章:致富有者

[1] Friedan,The Feminine Mystique,158.

东方财富配资[2] Rinehart,Mary Roberts,“A Home or a Career?”Ladies Home Journal,April 1921.Via“These Working Wives:The‘Two-Job’Woman in Interwar Magazines,”a paper presented by Jane Marcellus in 2004.

东方财富配资[3] “Estimated Median Age at First Marriage,by Sex,1890 to Present,”US Bureau of the Census,2010.

[4] DePaulo,Singled Out,144.

东方财富配资[5] Brown,Campbell,“Sexism Sneaks In Over and Open Mic,”Cnn.com,November 19,2008.

[6] “On Pay Gap,Millennial Women Near Parity——For Now,”Pew Research Center,December 11,2013,https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/12/11/on-pay-gap-mil lennial-women-near-parity-for-now/.

东方财富配资[7] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty,A Better Husband,68.

[8] Guy-Scheftall and Johnnetta Cole,Words of Fire,99.

[9] Gunning,Sandra,Race,Rape,and Lynching,122.

东方财富配资[10] Chambers Schiller,Liberty,a Better Husband,66.

[11] Ibid,98.

[12] Rosin,Hanna,“The End of Men,”The Atlantic,July/August 2010,https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2010/07/the-end-of-men/308135/.

东方财富配资[13] “Percentage Degrees Awarded to Women,”The Washington Post online,May,2013,https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/files/2013/05/its_getting_better-degrees-women.jpg.

[14] Mercado,Monica and Katherin Turk,“On Equal Terms:Educating Women at the University of Chicago,”The University of Chicago Library,https://www.lib.uchicago.edu/e/webexhibits/OnEqualTerms/NoneDebateOverSexSegregation.html.

东方财富配资[15] Rosenberg,Rosalind,Beyond Separate Spheres:Intellectual Roots of Modern Feminism,44.

东方财富配资[16] Bronski,Peter,“A Woman’s Place,”Vassar Alumnae Quarterly,January 2011,https://vq.vassar.edu/issues/2011/01/features/a-womans-place.html.

[17] D’Emilio,John and Estelle B.Freedman,Intimate Matters:A History of Sexuality in America,1988,190.

东方财富配资[18] Israel,Bachelor Girl,30.

东方财富配资[19] Ibid.,39.

[20] Weiss,Sasha,“A Study in Farewells:Kristin Wiig and Peggy Olson,”The New Yorker.com,June 1,2012,https://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/culture/2012/06/a-study-in-farewells-kristen-wiig-and-peggy-olson.html.

[21] Chambers-Schiller,Liberty a Better Husband,164.

[22] Venker,Suzanne,“Why Women Still Need Husbands,”foxnews.com,December 6,2013,https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2013/12/06/why-women-still-need-husbands/.

[23] “Many Millennials Say Women Are More Focused on Careers than Men,”in On Pay Gap,Millennial Women Near Parity,Pew Research Center,December 10,2013,https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/12/11/on-pay-gap-millennial-women-near-parity-for-now/sdt-gender-and-work-12-2013-0-08/.

[24] Flock,Elizabeth,“Book Says Supreme Court Crashed Sonia Sotomayor’s Personal Life,”USNews.com,July 17,2012.

东方财富配资[25] Klein,Ezra,“Nine Facts About Marriage and Childbirth in the United States,”The Washington Post,March 25,2013,https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2013/03/25/nine-facts-about-marriage-and-childbirth-in-the-united-states/.

东方财富配资[26] Ibid.

[27] Coe,Alexis,“Being Married Helps Professors Get Ahead,but Only if They’re Male,”The Atlantic.com,January 17,2013.

[28] Miller,Claire Cain,“The Motherhood Penalty vs.The Fatherhood Bonus,”The New York Times,September 6,2014.

东方财富配资[29] Lemmon,Gayle Tzemach,“I’m Not Your Wife!A New Study Points to a Hidden Form of Sexism,”The Atlantic.com,June 5,2012.

东方财富配资[30] Rikleen,Lauren Stiller,“Are Working Women Held Back?”Harvard Business Review,December 2012.

[31] Alazraki,Melly,“Young Single Women Now Earn More than Men,”DailyFinance.com,September 1,2010,https://www.dailyfinance.com/2010/09/01/young-single-women-earn-more-than-men/.

[32] Miller,Claire Cain,“The Motherhood Penalty vs.The Fatherhood Bonus,”The New York Times,September 6,2014.

[33] Cardona,Mercedes M.,“Single Minded Marketing:A Multitrillion Dollar Opportunity,”cmo.com,April 17,2013,https://www.cmo.com/articles/2013/4/16/single_minded_marketing.html.

[34] Swartz,Jon,“How Women are Changing the Tech World,”USA Today,June 6,2012.

[35] “Indie Women,”The Curve Report,NBC Universal,https://thecurvereport.com/category/films/indie-women/.

[36] Bolick,Kate,“For Women,Is Home Really So Sweet?”The Wall Street Journal,February 18,2012.

[37] “Field Guide to Women Homebuyers,”Realtor.com,June 2015,https://www.real tor.org/field-guides/field-guide-to-women-homebuyers.

[38] Elmer,Vickie,“Wed,in all but Finances,”New York Times,July 5,2012,https://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/08/realestate/mortgages-wed-in-all-but-finances.html?_r=1&hp.

东方财富配资[39] Coontz,Marriage a History,168.

[40] Ibid.,169.

第七章:贫困人群

东方财富配资[1] Crenshaw,KimberléWilliams,“The Girls Obama Forgot,”The New York Times,July 7,2014.

[2] Hollar,Julie,“Wealth Gap Yawns,and so does Media,”FAIR Fairness and Accuracy in Reporting,June 1,2010,https://fair.org/extra-online-articles/wealth-gap-yawns8212and-so-do-media/.

东方财富配资[3] Fairchild,Caroline,“Number of Fortune 500 Women CEOS Reaches Historic High,”Fortune.com,June 6,2014,https://fortune.com/2014/06/03/number-of-for tune-500-women-ceos-reaches-historic-high/.

东方财富配资[4] Howard,Caroline,“The New Class of Female CEOs”Forbes,August 22,2012,https://www.forbes.com/forbes/welcome/.

[5] Rivers,Caryl,“The End of Men?Not so Fast,”The Huffington Post,https://www.huffingtonpost.com/caryl-rivers/the-end-of-men-eyewash_b_624309.html.

东方财富配资[6] Luscombe,Belinda,“Workplace Salaries:At Last,Women on Top,”Time,September 1,2010.

[7] Coontz,“The Myth of Male Decline,”New York Times,September 29,2012,https://www.nytimes.com/2012/09/30/opinion/sunday/the-myth-of-male decline.html?pagewanted=all.

[8] “On Pay Gap,Millennial Women Near Parity for Now,”Pew Research Group,December 11,2013,https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/12/11/on-pay-gap-millennial-women-near-parity-for-now/.And“Do Men Really Earn More Than Women?”Payscale.com,https://www.payscale.com/gender-lifetime-earnings-gap.

东方财富配资[9] Coontz,“The Myth of Male Decline,”New York Times,September 29,2012.

[10] Schwartz,Madeleine,“Opportunity Costs:The True Price of Internships,”Winter 2013,https://www.dissentmagazine.org/article/opportunity-costs-the-true-price-of-internships.

东方财富配资[11] DeParle,Jason,“Two Classes,Divided By I Do,”New York Times,July 7,2012,https://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/15/us/two-classes-in-america-pided-by-i-do.html.

东方财富配资[12] Confessore,Nick,“Tramps Like Them:Charles Murray Examines the White Working Class in‘Coming Apart,’”New York Times,February 10,2012.

[13] Rampell,Catherine,“Bundled Households,”New York Times,November 12,2012,https://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/11/12/bundled-households/.

[14] Arnold,Lisa and Christina Campbell,“The High Price of Being Single in America,”January 14,2013,https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/01/the-high-price-of-being-single-in-america/267043/.

东方财富配资[15] Palmer,Kimberly,“Why Single People Are So Financially Stressed,”USNews.com,October 17,2010.

[16] Correll,Shelley,Steven Bernard,In Paik,“Getting a Job:Is there a Motherhood Penality?”American Journal of Sociology,Vol.112,No.5,March,2007,1297–1339,https://gender.stanford.edu/sites/default/files/motherhoodpenalty.pdf.

东方财富配资[17] Coontz,Stephanie,“Progress at Work,But Mothers Still Pay a Price,”New York Times,June 8,2013,https://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/09/opinion/sunday/coontz-richer-childless-women-are-making-the-gains.html.

东方财富配资[18] Wang,Wendy and Kim Parker and Paul Taylor,“Breadwinner Moms,”Pew Research Center,May 29,2013,https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/05/29/bread winner-moms/.

东方财富配资[19] Hymowitz,Kay and Jason S.Carroll,W.Bradford Wilcox,Kelleen Kaye,“Knot Yet Report:What Does the Rising Marriage Age Mean For Twentysomething Women,Men and Families?”2012,https://twentysomethingmarriage.org/.

[20] Castillo,Michelle,“Almost Half of First Babies in US Born to Unwed Mothers,”CBS News,March 15,2013,https://www.cbsnews.com/news/almost-half-of-first-babies-in-us-born-to-unwed-mothers/.

东方财富配资[21] Angier,Natalie,“The Changing American Family,”The New York Times,November 26,2013,https://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/26/health/families.html.

[22] Sawhill,Isabel,“The New White Negro,”Washington Monthly,January/February 2013,https://www.washingtonmonthly.com/magazine/january_february_2013/fea tures/the_new_white_negro042050.php?page=all.

[23] Edin,Kathryn and Maria Kefalas,“Why Poor Women Put Motherhood Before Marriage,”published by the National Poverty Center,March 12,2013,https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRUj_C5JdHs.Talk stems from Promises I Can Keep by Edin and Kefalas.

东方财富配资[24] “Phyllis Schlafly Still Championing the Anti-Feminist Fight,”Tell Me More,NPR,March 30,2011,https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=134981902.

[25] Fleischer,Ari,“How to Fight Income Inequality:Get Married,”The Wall Street Journal,January 12,2014.

东方财富配资[26] Bruenig,Matt,“The Single Mother,Child Poverty Myth,”Demos,April 14,2014,https://www.demos.org/blog/4/14/14/single-mother-child-poverty-myth.

东方财富配资[27] Rector,Robert,“Marriage:America’s Greatest Weapon Against Child Poverty,”The Heritage Foundation,September 5,2012,https://www.heritage.org/research/reports/2012/09/marriage-americas-greatest-weapon-against-child-poverty.

[28] Mencimer,Stephanie,“The GOP’s Dead End Marriage Program,”Mother Jones,June 25,2012,https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2012/06/gops-dead-end-marriage-program.

东方财富配资[29] Covert,Bryce,“Heritage Panel tells Women that the Road to Economic Security is Marriage,not Feminism,”Think Progress,April 1,2014,https://thinkprogress.org/economy/2014/04/01/3421603/heritage-marriage-poverty/.

[30] “Minnesota Family Investment Program,”Minnesota Department of Human Services.

[31] Fremstad,Shawn and Melissa Boteach,“How Progressive Policies Can Strengthen Marriage and Family Life,”Family Studies,February 10,2015,https://family-stud ies.org/how-progressive-policies-can-strengthen-marriage-and-family-life/.

[32] “New Hope Project,”Promising Practices,https://www.promisingpractices.net/program.asp?programid=269.

东方财富配资[33] Gassman-Pines,Anna and Hirokazu Yoshikawa,“Five Year Effects of an Anti-Poverty Program on Marriage among Never-Married Mothers”Journal of Policy Analysis and Management,Vol.25,No.1,2006,11–30,https://steinhardt.nyu.edu/scmsAdmin/media/users/jr189/Five_Year_Effects_of_Antipoverty_Program.pdf.

东方财富配资[34] Covert,Bryce,“Senator Floats Idea to Penalize Low-Income Women Who Have Children,”Think Progress,January 29,2014,https://thinkprogress.org/economy/2014/01/29/3220881/rand-paul-welfare-cap-children/.

东方财富配资[35] “Rand Paul and the Extent of Marital Poverty in Kentucky,”CEPR Blog,Center for Economic and Policy Research,January 30,2014,https://www.cepr.net/blogs/cepr-blog/rand-paul-and-the-extent-of-marital-poverty-in-kentucky.Via Shawn Fremstad,“Temporary Assistance Doesn’t Help Impoverished Married Parents,”TalkPoverty.org,May 1,2015,https://talkpoverty.org/2015/05/01/temporary-assis tance/.

[36] Senate Bill 518,General Assembly of North Carolina,Session 2013,April 1,2013,https://www.ncleg.net/Sessions/2013/Bills/Senate/PDF/S518v1.pdf.

[37] Marcotte,Amanda,“The Worst State for Women?”The American Prospect,January 13,2013,https://prospect.org/article/worst-state-women.

[38] Hymowitz,Kay and Jason S.Carroll,W.Bradford Wilcox,Kelleen Kaye,“Knot Yet Report:What Does the Rising Marriage Age Mean For Twentysomething Women,Men and Families?”2012,https://twentysomethingmarriage.org/.

东方财富配资[39] Angier,Natalie,“The Changing American Family,”The New York Times,November 26,2013,https://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/26/health/families.html.

东方财富配资[40] Edin,Kathryn and Maria Kefalas,“Unmarried with Children,”Contexts,Vol.4,No.2.,May,2005,https://ctx.sagepub.com/content/4/2/16.abstract.

[41] Edin,Kathryn and Maria Kefalas,Promises I Can Keep,185.

[42] Fragile Families and Child Wellbeing Study,cited by Kathryn Edin Study cited by Edin and Kefalas in“Why Poor Women Put Motherhood Before Marriage”speech.

东方财富配资[43] Wang,Wendy,“The Best Cities for Women Looking to Marry,”Pew Research Center,October 2,2014,https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2014/10/02/the-best-and-worst-cities-for-women-looking-to-marry/.

[44] Knafo,Saki,“1 in 3 Black Men Will Go To Prison in their Lifetimes,Report Warns,”Huffington Post,October 4,2013,https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/04/racial-disparities-criminal-justice_n_4045144.html.

东方财富配资[45] Porter,Eduardo,“In the U.S.,Punishment Comes Before the Crimes,”The New York Times,April 29,2014.

[46] Coates,Ta-Nehesi,“The Black Family in the Age of Mass Incarceration,”The Atlantic,October,2015.

[47] Via the Federal Bureau of Investigation.

东方财富配资[48] “Criminal Justice Fact Sheet,”National Association for the Advancement of Colored People,naacp.org,https://www.naacp.org/pages/criminal-justice-fact-sheet.

东方财富配资[49] Angier,Natalie,“The Changing American Family,”New York Times,November 26,2013,https://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/26/health/families.html.

[50] Discussion between Marian Wright Edelman,Vivian Nixon,Glenn Martin,Bob Herbert on The Melissa Harris Perry Show,MSNBC,July 14,2012.

东方财富配资[51] “Know Your Rights:Housing and Arrests or Criminal Convictions,”The Bronx Defenders,October 2,1010,https://www.bronxdefenders.org/housing-and-arrests-or-criminal-convictions/.

东方财富配资[52] Alexander,Michelle,“The Zimmerman Mindset:Why Black Men Are the Permanent Undercaste,”July 29,2013.

东方财富配资[53] Ludden,Jennifer,“Can Marriage Save Single Mothers From Poverty?”Morning Edition,NPR,September 13,2012,https://www.npr.org/2012/09/13/161017580/can-marriage-save-single-mothers-from-poverty.

东方财富配资[54] Stevenson,Betsey and Justin Wolfers,“Valentine’s Day and the Economics of Love,”Bloomberg View,February 13,2013,https://www.bloombergview.com/arti cles/2013-02-13/valentine-s-day-and-the-economics-of-love.

[55] Fremstad,Shawn,“Temporary Assistance Doesn’t Help Impoverished Married Parents,”TalkPoverty.org,May 1,2015,https://talkpoverty.org/2015/05/01/tempo rary-assistance/.

[56] Edin and Kefalas,Promises I Can Keep,199.

东方财富配资[57] Coontz,Stephanie,“The Triumph of the Working Mother,”New York Times,June 1,2013,https://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/02/opinion/sunday/coontz-the-triumph-of-the-working-mother.html?ref=global-home.

[58] Ibid.

[59] Boo,Katherine,“The Marriage Cure,”The New Yorker,August 18,2003.

[60] Coates,Ta-Nehesi,“Of Baguettes and Black Families,”The Atlantic,September 13,2013,https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2013/09/of-baguettes-and-black-families/279678/.

第八章:性与单身女孩

[1] Coontz,Stephanie,Marriage:A History.

[2] Addams,Jane,The Spirit of Youth and the City Streets,15–16.Via Louise Knight.

[3] Grimké,Sarah,“Marriage,”in Sarah Grimke,Letters on the Equality of the Sexes and Other Essays.Elizabeth Ann Bartlett,ed.,148.

[4] Ibid.,148.

东方财富配资[5] Randall,Mercedes Moritz,Improper Bostonian:Emily Greene Balch,398.

[6] Caplan,Paula J.,“Sex and the Myth of Women’s Masochism,”Psychology Today,August 14,2012,https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/science-isnt-golden/201208/sex-and-the-myth-women-s-masochism.

[7] Trimberger,Ellen Kay,The New Single Woman,14.

东方财富配资[8] Firestone,Shulamith,The Dialectic of Sex:The Case for Feminist Revolution,152.

[9] Bilton,Nick,“Tinder,The Fast Growing Dating App,Taps and Age-Old Truth,”New York Times,October 30,2014,https://mobile.nytimes.com/2014/10/30/fash ion/tinder-the-fast-growing-dating-app-taps-an-age-old-truth.html?referrer=&_r=0.

[10] Sales,Nancy Jo,“Tinder and the Dawn of the‘Dating Apocalypse,’”Vanity Fair,August 2015,https://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2015/08/tinder-hook-up-culture-end-of-dating.

[11] Massey,Alana,“The Dickonomics of Tinder,”Matter,April 30,2015,https://me dium.com/matter/the-dickonomics-of-tinder-b14956c0c2c7.

[12] McCracken,Amanda,“Does My Virginity Have a Shelf Life?”The New York Times,November 13,2013,https://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/11/13/does-my-virginity-have-a-shelf-life/?smid=tw-share.

东方财富配资[13] Tyler May,Elaine,Homeward Bound,.

[14] “Sex Will Change Totally,Liza Mundy Predicts in New Book,‘The Richer Sex,’”Huffington Post,March 19,2012,https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/19/sex-richer-liza-mundy-gender-gap_n_1363917.html#s790489title=Women_Will_Refuse.

东方财富配资[15] Freitas,Donna,“Time to Stop Hooking Up(You Know You Want To)”The Washington Post,March 29,2013.

[16] Plank,Elizabeth,“There’s A Way to Discuss Hookup Culture and this Wasn’t It,”mic.com,July 15,2013,https://mic.com/articles/54701/there-s-a-way-to-discuss-hook-up-culture-and-this-wasn-t-it.

东方财富配资[17] Sessions Stepp,Laura,“Cupid’s Broken Arrow,”The Washington Post,May 7,2006,https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/05/06/AR2006050601206.html.

东方财富配资[18] Douthat,Ross,“Love in the Time of Hookups,”New York Times,July 18,2013,https://douthat.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/07/18/love-in-the-time-of-hookups/.

东方财富配资[19] Rosin,Hanna,Boys on the Side,The Atlantic,September 2012,https://www.the atlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/09/boys-on-the-side/309062/3/.

东方财富配资[20] Ingeno,Lauren,“Let’s Talk(Differently)About Sex,”Inside Higher Ed,July 29,2013,https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2013/07/29/changing-hook-culture-conversation-college-campuses.

[21] Rosin,Hanna,Boys on the Side,The Atlantic,September 2012,https://www.the atlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/09/boys-on-the-side/309062/3/.

[22] Paquette,Danielle,“Why Millennials Have Fewer Sex Partners than their Parents Did,”The Washington Post,May 6,2015,https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonkblog/wp/2015/05/06/why-millennials-have-sex-with-fewer-partners-than-their-parents-did/.

东方财富配资[23] Ingeno,Lauren,“Let’s Talk(Differently)About Sex,”Inside Higher Ed,July 29,2013,https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2013/07/29/changing-hook-culture-conversation-college-campuses.

东方财富配资[24] Rosin,“Boys on the Side,”The Atlantic.

[25] Ibid.

东方财富配资[26] Friedman,Ann,“When Women Pursue Sex,Even Men Don’t Get It,”New York,June 4,2013,https://nymag.com/thecut/2013/06/when-women-pursue-sex-even-men-dont-get-it.html.

[27] Kitroeff,Natalie,“In Hookups,Inequality Still Reigns,”New York Times,November 11,2013,https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/11/11/women-find-orgasms-elu sive-in-hookups/.

[28] Maines,Rachel P.,The Technology of Orgasm:“Hysteria,”the Vibrator,and Women’s Sexual Satisfaction.Via New York Times excerpt,https://www.nytimes.com/books/first/m/maines-technology.html.

[29] Hess,Amanda,“Abstinence Won’t Solve Hookup Culture,”Slate,April 1,2013,https://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/04/01/abstinence_won_t_solve_the_hookup_culture_donna_freitas_is_wrong_about_sex.html.

第九章:单身时代的婚与不婚

[1] Waldman,Katy,“Young People in Japan Have Given Up on Sex,”Slate,October 22,2013,https://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/10/22/celibacy_syn drome_in_japan_why_aren_t_young_people_interested_in_sex_or.html.

东方财富配资[2] Haworth,Abigail,“Why Have Young People in Japan Stopped Having Sex?”The Guardian,October 20,2013,https://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/oct/20/young-people-japan-stopped-having-sex.

[3] “Survey Shows One Third of Japanese Think Marriage Is‘Pointless,’”Japan Daily Press,July 2,2013,https://japandailypress.com/survey-shows-one-third-of-japanese-think-marriage-is-pointless-0231559/.

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[10] Hess,Amanda,“When It Comes to‘Having it All,’Men Want More,”Slate,October 31,2013,https://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/10/31/work_life_balance_study_professional_men_are_more_likely_than_women_to_want.html.

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[13] Adelman,Lori,“Amelia Earhart’s Prenup from the 1930s Lays Out a Pretty Darn Modern Vision of Marriage,”Feministing.com,December 12,2010,https://fem inisting.com/2012/12/10/amelia-earhart-prenup-from-1930s-lays-out-a-pretty-darn-modern-vision-of-marriage/.

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[28] Oxfeld,Jesse,“Yesterday an Oppressed Minority,Today an Old Maid,”New York Observer,June 2013,https://observer.com/2013/06/yesterday-an-oppressed-mi nority-today-an-old-maid/#ixzz2nJtZg4lX.

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[5] Ibid.

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[24] Last,Jonathan,“America’s Baby Bust,”Wall Street Journal,February 12,2013.

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